Under the Same Sky: The Story Behind Selene & Pollux
Growing up, I didn’t know what I was going to pursue in life but looking back now, there were always signs of what I was destined to do.
Before I share those signs, I want to take you back to my senior year of high school. You know… the year everyone says is the most important. The year you “become an adult.” The year you’re supposed to decide your entire future.
That year, I felt lost.
The future felt uncertain. College wasn’t something that was talked about in my home. My parents divorced when I was 12, and parts of my teenage years feel like a blur. Trauma has a way of protecting you. Sometimes your brain blocks things out just so you can keep going. If it wasn’t for AVID, I honestly wouldn’t have known what college even looked like as an option.
But here’s what I see clearly now:
I have always been creative.
Throughout middle school and high school, every elective I chose centered around art and design. I took art, photoshop, CAD, website design, Interior design, pottery , and even electrical. I was constantly building, conceptualizing, styling, designing, editing long before I ever called myself a designer.
Creativity wasn’t something I learned later.
It was always in me.
I dreamed of becoming a music producer and a hip-hop dancer. I was on the drill team and felt alive performing but I was raised to believe those weren’t “real careers.”
I knew I was strong in science, so I chose the “practical” route and pursued Biochemistry at community college. Logical. Safe. Responsible.
I started working at 15 and continued working while in school. Eventually, I became a Front Desk Supervisor at Fitness Connection and later a temporary Operations Manager. I worked long hours with no lunch breaks (which I now know was illegal) and burned out quickly.
College didn’t work out for me and when it didn’t, I felt like I was back at square one.
So I worked.
And worked.
And worked.
I tried banking at Wells Fargo and it wasn’t aligned. In 2019, I became an admin for a real estate group and loved it. I even took my real estate course, but didn’t pass the first exam… and shortly after, I was laid off.
Another reset.
I then took a call center job. It was the highest hourly pay I had ever earned and made one of the boldest decisions of my life: I purchased my first home at 21 years old.
And that’s when everything changed.
While touring communities, I walked into staged homes and remember thinking:
“Wow! I want to do this.”
I researched nonstop and came across Casa Bella Dallas. Shout out to Francisco for pointing me toward Staging Studio. I enrolled, completed the course, and became a certified expert Home Stager.
Immediately, I joined the Staging Studio support group and asked if anyone in DFW was hiring. Fortunately, Loft Allure was.
That’s where I met Tan, founder and principal stylist. Working under Tan changed everything. She pushed me out of my comfort zone from executing stages independently, to presenting in front of realtors, to managing social media.
Then 2022 came.
It was one of the hardest years of my life in every aspect. I also experienced a devastating and close loss, my brother-in-law and sister-in-law passed away. Grief changes you. It softens you. It deepens you. It makes you question everything.
During that time, Tan sent me a post from D Magazine and encouraged me to apply for an internship in their events department. I applied, I interviewed, and I was offered the position.
You might be wondering what events have to do with interior design.
Everything.
Through D Magazine events, especially D Home award nights, I found myself surrounded by designers, builders, and creatives. I networked. I observed. I listened.
At one architect event, someone said something to me that changed my life:
“As long as you have the creativity, it’ll take you a long way without a degree.”
I needed to hear that.
Because I had tried to go back to school for Interior Design at the Design Institute of Dallas, and when I learned I wouldn’t qualify for financial aid and saw the tuition cost, I felt defeated.
I couldn’t afford it.
And I didn’t want to move backwards into a draining 9–5 just to survive. I had already taken so many leaps of faith; contract work, flexible hours, unstable income all for the sake of building something meaningful.
So I kept going.
I searched again and found part-time roles as an interior design assistant. I worked under multiple designers, I joined a builder team, and I gained hands-on experience. Eventually, I committed to one designer consistently.
But as time passed, I didn’t see growth.
Not financially.
Not creatively.
And once again, I felt lost.
Until I decided I was done playing small.
I was done letting imposter syndrome speak louder than my intuition.
Done waiting for someone else to validate my talent.
Done shrinking.
So I took the biggest leap of faith yet:
I started my own design studio.
Why Selene & Pollux?
Choosing a name was deeply intentional.
I didn’t want it to just be my name. If I’m being honest, I was afraid people might hesitate to do business with me because of it. I am a proud Mexican woman with a Cambodian last name but I wanted something bigger than me. Something timeless. Something that could grow into an umbrella for the future I envision.
After my in-laws passed, nature began speaking to me in ways I can’t fully explain.
When we lit lanterns in their honor, a butterfly appeared in the glow.
Since then, there were signs everywhere…red cardinals, butterflies, dragonflies, flashes of blue, their favorite songs playing unexpectedly at home, in the car, in restaurants.
The universe. The skies. The quiet guidance of something bigger.
One night, standing in my backyard under the countryside sky, I looked up and saw the moon.
Selene, the goddess of the moon represents femininity, intuition, the subconscious, and cycles of change. Everything I was experiencing.
Then I thought about the stars. I’m a Gemini. The twin stars are Castor and Pollux. Pollux the immortal star and I loved that it ended in “lux.”
Together: Selene & Pollux.
Moon and star.
Intuition and light.
Emotion and structure.
Shadow and brilliance.
For interior design, Selene represents the feeling and emotional energy of a space. Pollux represents the light of the intentionality, structure, and clarity of design.
Design is both soul and strategy.
Both intuition and execution.
And just like that the name was available. The domain. The Instagram handle. Everything.
It felt aligned.
THE VISION
Selene & Pollux is more than a design studio.
It’s Create & Inspire , the meaning behind C&I Studio, the name I originally used when I first began staging and designing. My mission has always been to create spaces that inspire people to feel safe, elevated, seen, and at peace.
My color palette reflects the night sky:
Tempe Star.
Dark Night.
Midnight.
Black of Night.
And a custom tone tied to angel number 7777 - alignment, intuition, divine guidance.
Every detail holds intention.
I have big dreams for Selene & Pollux. Bigger than what you see right now. There’s an umbrella forming, one that will expand beyond interiors into experiences, collaborations, and curated environments that tell stories.
This is just the beginning.
If there’s one thing my journey has taught me, it’s this:
You don’t need a perfect timeline.
You don’t need a traditional path.
You don’t need permission.
If you have creativity and the courage to trust it, it’ll guide you exactly where you’re meant to be.
And I’m just getting started.